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Things That Can’t Be Fixed In A Relationship

Some people will realize they are in a trouble relationship and leave. However, there are some who want leave. Those who feel the need to stay are trying to always change something to make things work. Well, everything can’t be fixed; here are five things that cannot be fixed in a relationship:

1. No Trust

Occasional bouts of jealously and possessiveness are okay, sometimes they are simply signs of insecurity. However a general lack of trust spells disaster. No matter how much you try, if the other person doesn’t trust you, you really cannot build this relationship. You need to trust him and he needs to trust you, period.

2. No Efforts

It always takes two to make a relationship work. No matter what excuses people give, at the end of the day he or she needs to put in equal amounts of effort. If you feel that the other person is not putting in any effort to make the relationship grow, and to fix things that are wrong, it might be better to just let go.

3. Tit For Tat

We tend to do this all the time. He had an argument and left the house, and you wait to do the same. You want him to feel the same amount of hurt as you did, but this tit for tat culture is actually horrible. You cannot spend half your life fixating on when the other person hurt you, and then doing the same to them. You need to learn to forgive and forget. And that brings us to our next point …

4. Your Partner Cannot Forgive And Forget

Like most things in life, the relationship is bound to have some bad memories too. If one of you cheated, or said something that was too hurtful or anything else for that matter … if you cannot forgive and forget, there is no point in making this work. You cannot make a relationship survive amidst all that hurt and anger anyway. Just let go.

5. Only Being Around For The Good Times

If you find your partner pulling a disappearing act each time your relationship encounters a problem, maybe it’s not meant to be, Unless you want to be the only one dealing with your problems all your life, this person needs to go.

 

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